Untethered Dog

You Never Know Where He Will Go

Self

Connection

Cherish encounters with souls that delight your own. Rare are the people who energize you rather than deplete you. Do not wallow. Do not follow this signpost of frustration over the fact that such moments are fleeting. This is how it must be. What makes such encounters special is that they are so seldom. To […]

Ze Plane, ze plane!

Love — not lament — that people view the world differently than you. The belief that others are wayward is what throws you off your course, not they theirs. You have your own work to do, your own steps to take, your own depth to plumb. Try not to convince others; where they are wrong […]

Grit

One thing opponents observed about Jim Brown is that no matter how hard they tackled the great running back he always bounced up to his feet the same way, always ambled back to the huddle as if nothing much had happened.

Character is Crucial

Character is not always easy. To be sure. But it is it’s own reward. The act is the prize.

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You have your own work to do and you are now, finally, prepared to do it. You do not need anyone else to see it. Or see you. Or cheer you on. These are your steps to take, without witness and for no end but for the fact that you must.

This Is It

Every day is a microcosm of life. Every day, you could say, is a life. Your day is birthed from death. It is dark. You are cold. Confused. You cannot see clearly. After you get your wits about you, as much as you can, you realize you have near limitless choices before you. It is […]

Momentum

What you do right now informs and influences every moment that follows. To choose to read is to take a path to wisdom. To choose to write is to take a path to understanding. To choose to exercise is to take a path to health. To choose to meditate is to take a path to […]

Eye on the Target

Are you distracted in any way by what happens to you from outside? Then give yourself some free time to learn something new and worthwhile, and stop wandering about aimlessly. But after that, you must also guard against going astray in a second way; for equally foolish are those who have become weary of life […]

COVID Winter

Now is the time to learn anew who you are. To write and reflect. To ask yourself good questions. The sort of questions you would ask a good friend. All contentment is available when you forego externals. To grasp is a form of fighting yourself. You will, you must, admit defeat. Your happiness is up […]

Acceptance

There are times during the day, such as when the sun is high in the sky, when you are liable to slip into sloth. There is little means to avoid this. Do not despair. Yet there is strength in playing the hand you’re dealt rather than folding your cards. Choose wisely. If you do not […]

Purpose

It is pretty simple: if you do not pursue your purpose you will get sick and you will be tired and you will feel uninspired. You will covet externals. You will become easily irked. You will look to others for answers. For escape. You will be passive. Purpose = oxygen.

A Cure for Anxiety

Get calm. Whatever you need but the body must register your arrival. It is, therefore, a great conduit. Engage the concern. Aim for proactive, seek meaning, don’t grasp for answers.

Awareness

But then you press your more weathered nose against another window and see your reflection. While you were not fooled before — while you are not, in fact, where you once were, you aren’t as formed as you thought when you felt so mighty as to smear at yourself.

Badass

It’s strange to have a song stuck in your head when you don’t know the last time you heard the song, you haven’t before especially liked the song, and, in a way, the song predates you. In fact, Jim Croce’s “Bad, Bad Leroy Brown” was recorded the year I was born. The following year it […]

Failure Is Definitely An Option

One thing I’m going to have to face is the fact that I’m going to come up short in this life. I am going to fail to create what I am capable of creating. Or — either that — I am not as capable as I think I am. I am not sure which it […]

Three Things

I have over time discovered that there are three things I must do each morning in order to have any semblance of a chance to win the day: Write something that moves me. Move me (work out). Take care of my dog (walks, meals, meds, bath*). While the dog still gets his daily doses, I […]

Two Lists

“Character is destiny.” I had heard those words before. Last night I read that they were attributed to Heraclitus, a Presocratic philosopher who was said to practice social distancing several thousand years before it was cool. He was a hermit. There is a lot of wisdom in that view. Character is not a word you […]

Corona Jujitsu — Not

Turns out, I was wearing it upside down. My mask. My N-95. My first one. As I stood in line to get into the grocery store, I snapped a selfie to send to my friend as I thanked him again for the gratis covering. He politely pointed out my error. I didn’t receive his gentle […]

Quarantine Crankiness

I go along thinking shelter-in-place hasn’t affected me much. For every adverse effect, I can find a positive. For every downside, I can see an upside. As one who is neither sick nor unemployed, it is, frankly, hard to muster a complaint. With so many in true duress, I am, by comparison, fortunate. No doubt. […]

Reflection on a Reflection

An hour after I drafted my previous post I had a dream during which I realized I had learned my own lesson about assessments all over again. It was like a paradox inside of a paradox. Like dreams often are, the moment didn’t make sense, not literally, not in waking life, and yet in dream […]